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Kello72

  6 months ago

Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:
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Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age: 1: Warn your Girl Child Never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles. 2: Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself. 3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband' 4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves. 5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult. 6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child. 7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex . If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values. 8: It is always advisable you go through any new Material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. 9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often. 10. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you). 11: Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families). 12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the
crowd. 13: Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them. Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. and remember "THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME" Have a Nice day and Great Week Ahead
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Sonjabotha

  6 months ago
Me too, glad you said it. Me and a cousin noticed some of the things you mentioned to the T between another cousins child and a family member. When we spoke to the parents, they admitted that they knew and the child was at a physiologist, but he wouldn't speak about it, or say who it was although all of us knew, we couldn't do any thing unless the child named him. He is an A-hole and will take you to court if you can't prove what you are accusing him of. I had to teach all the stuff still to a T as you mentioned it here to my child. My child has been bathing himself since 18 months, washing his own privates, and we used friends to assist us in teaching him to say no or to how to get away if needed. In cases like this you can't just teach the child with words to say no, you have to show him/her the meaning. Kids may sound comfortable to say no when you talk to them about it, but as they play with other kids and they see how other kids allows the things they need to say no for, your lessons go out of the window. at 3 years, we had a friend leading him to his room and closing the door behind him and he was fine with it, even after everything we tough him. The friend explained to him what he did wrong and then we had a talk with him again and had to teach it all over again. A child need to be able to see a picture to understand, a child need see to understand, just talking words, means nothing to him. After he allowed himself again to be separated from us and to be singled out we had to show him semi porn pics of a person touching a child for him to understand what we were trying to teach him (this we had to do at 4 years), because he wasn't taking it serious when you try to explain or show it to him yourself, . Children don't see the bad in people, they only see the good the charade and the promises. Children knows well how to manipulate parents, adults and friends but they don't recognize when manipulated themselves by some one else.
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rcarosin

  6 months ago
Awe-darn-some! Kello! I'm so glad you wrote this. I can't, as I don't have kids, so I'm not qualified and am only able to speak for myself as I remember being a kid. Gees, your list is awfully warm to my heart! I think you should publish a website immediately just for those who do a WWW search on 'what to teach my child', or, gees, there's millions of ways people would search to find out how to raise their kids right... Just go to webs.com, or wix.com, and open a free website and do it up all nice, and copy/paste your list in BIG BOLD, and in the tags section, put in words that people would use to search for good advice. I know how I am when I search for something obscure on the web... "how long may I keep mushrooms in the fridge before...", and when I type that in, I get a whole bunch of pages where people have used basically the same language as me to do a similar search!
If you seriously are going to do a webpage, and you need any help, well, I'm here! And EveryOne else would pitch in! In fact, you could ask (Toluna site, yay) every one to add to the list!
I'm definitely up for this... Awesome! Now, if I only knew if I was bathing right! LOL!
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Wendy-M

  6 months ago
I love this...Every parent should take note of this....
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Prini

  6 months ago
These are things that every parent should be aware of....there are so many dangers that our children face every day...it's scary...this advice will really help them and save them from predators etc out there...it will also help give children a sense of responsibility ...
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Rochelleslippers

  6 months ago
These are very important tips for all parents. Thank you so much for sharing Kello
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